Monday, March 17, 2008
Trying to be the good son . . .
Spent a fair amount of time in the hospital over the weekend, with my mother. Those of you who have been through this with an elderly parent know the drill: weakness, weight loss, falls, aches and pains, atrial fibrillation, coumadin, bruising, etc., etc. Add in low platelets and depression, and you've got a wintry mix. We're looking for Assisted Living and/or Extended Care Nursing Home. It's really for the best. And even she agrees now. I guess the upside is one gets to see almost the whole family together in one place. For instance: a very fun lunch break with several sisters, turned family conference at Panera. And our Mom can still crack a good joke now and then: she had the Nurses Aid in stitches over something that ended "I said VIP, not VIB."
I'm so sorry, Peter. I'll be thinking good thoughts for your mother!
ReplyDeleteI'm also sorry to hear this, Peter, but I fear I will soon be dealing with this with both my parents. Neither is in very good health.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your thoughts J & C.
ReplyDeleteYes, it is never easy with aging parents. Best (I almost typed "blessed") to plan ahead.
I my wish my mother had purchased Long Term Care Insurance, and signed a Living Will, or DPA -- but she refused to do any of this.
In the long run, not deciding is a kind of deciding, I guess.
Sorry, sweetie.
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